Dating, Relationship & Grief Coach
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Description:
Annie is your coach if you want to:
•Meet the right people
•Connect deeply with the people you meet
•Understand what your dates want & how to express what you are looking for
•Move through the dating process, find the right one and build a lasting love
•Learn problem solving and stop arguing
•Create pathways to understanding
•Find your way to the Peaceful Passion you both/all desire
•Create a life together with intention and clarity
•Learn for the first time what it can be like to love someone on purpose
•Stop arguing & create understanding & collaboration
•Discover the human potential you have as a team
•Create a plan for making your relationship last
•Rediscover the passion that brought you together
•Grow together to ever increasing levels of intimacy and joy
•Learn for the first time what it can be like to love someone on purpose
•Trust your own heart & feel safe loving again
•Reconnect to a belief you've questioned because of loss
•Create a place within to hold your memories in a way that doesn't hold you back
•Understand what happened to your past relationships & let go so you can move forward
•Come to terms with a love that didn't end well
Annie is a seasoned consultant and an expert on the dating process and the
dating industry. She brings years of experience and a deep understanding of
the differences between men and women to her coaching. Annie will work with you to set quantifiable goals, develop an action plan to move forward quickly, remove negative belief systems and create a powerful program to maximize your exposure to potential partners. You will learn to screen potential partners more effectively, locate and recognize your soul mates and move smoothly and quickly through the 5 stages of dating.
Each stage of relationship has it’s own challenges and rewards. Are you and your partner ready to move to the next stage? Do you have uncertainties? Does your partner? Do you know where to go next and how you are going to get there together? Are you ready to plan a future together with intention and clarity? Annie will help you create a map to the future you want to share with your partner.
Learn problem solving, create pathways to understanding, discover the human potential you have as a team, find your way to the peaceful passion you both desire. Create a life together with intention and clarity. Learn for the first time what it can be like to love someone on purpose.
We each dream of relationship that is passionate, joyful and tender. Often we find ourselves frustrated, very much in love, yet unable to create the love we dreamed of, resentful and angry with the one/s we love most.
As we grieve the loss of a love, our grief can feel like all we have to hold onto. Our memories, and our thoughts of the future, can be hard to hold alongside one another. How do we begin to move forward while still honoring the past? How do know we when it is time? Such a loss, even when expected, can leave us devastated and unclear of the future.
What Is Relationship Coaching?
Relationship coaching is a professional client-focused service where an individual or couple is assumed to be healthy, powerful, and able to achieve relationship goals with effective support, information, and guidance.
Coaching:
-Assumes the client is whole
-Roots in sports, business, personal
growth venues
-Works to move people to a higher level
of functioning
-Focuses on actions and the future
-Focuses on solving problems
-Works with the conscious mind
-Works for external solutions to
overcome barriers, learn new skills
and implement effective choices
Therapy:
-Assumes the client needs healing
-Roots in medicine, psychiatry-Works
with people to achieve self-
understanding and emotional healing
-Focuses on feelings and past events
-Explores the root of problems
-Works to bring the unconscious into
consciousness
-Works for internal resolution of pain and
to let go of old patterns
Top 10 Guidelines Of Relationship Coaching
1. Relationship Coaching is not consulting or therapy.
Coaching empowers by assuming our clients are the expert, fully capable of achieving their goals, and focuses on supporting them into action based on personal values as defined by the client. Consulting typically provides advice and solutions, while therapy typically focuses on insight and emotional issues. Because these approaches are so different, the coach should be clear about these distinctions, educate clients about them, and make conscious choices about the nature of the coaching relationship that are in the best interests of our clients.
2. A Relationship Coach helps the client focus on the bigger picture.
Relationship coaching is not effective when isolating our clients’ relationship goals from the rest of their life, such as work, family, friends, wellness, spirituality, etc.
3. A Relationship Coach shares relationship knowledge, experience, and information without attachment.
Sharing expertise with our clients as a coach is very different from any other helping relationship. It is necessary to address our clients’ relationship skills and knowledge deficits, however we do so in a way that supports them to discover and own their truth.
4. A Relationship Coach assumes a relationship is part of the journey, not the destination.
We support our clients to focus on meaning, connection, and long-term goals, in addition to helping them find a partner or improve their existing relationships.
5. A Relationship Coach assumes that the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself.
Our relationships are our mirrors. The Law Of Attraction dictates that what is inside shows up on the outside. We help our clients take responsibility for their relationship outcomes and be the partner they want to have.
6. A Relationship Coach does not judge a relationship as right or wrong, good or bad.
As stated above, we assume our clients are the expert and honor their truth and agenda. While we have judgments, we do not impose them on our clients. We lead our clients through a process of discovery in which they are empowered to make the relationship choices that are right for them.
7. A Relationship Coach does not seek to get personal needs met with clients or prospective clients.
An ethical coach values being of service above all else, holds the coaching relationship sacred, and does not allow a personal agenda to interfere with doing so.
8. A Relationship Coach addresses their clients’ sabotaging attitudes and choices without making them wrong.
We skillfully help our clients become aware of the connection between their attitudes (beliefs, interpretations, etc), choices and consequences, and support them to make their own judgments and decisions about them in light of their Vision, Purpose, Requirements, Needs, and Goals.
9. A Relationship Coach is neutral about the outcome for pre-committed relationships, and an advocate for committed relationships.
We value using the opportunity while single to make conscious long-term relationship choices, and believe in the power and necessity of commitment to make those choices work and be fulfilling.
10. A Relationship Coach “walks the talk” by continually addressing his or her own personal and relationship development, challenges, and goals.
We know that we can only help our clients along paths that we have traveled ourselves, and no further, so we must continually strive to be conscious and intentional in our lives and relationships. This includes furthering our own learning and development by working with a coach or mentor, on-going training, and other means.
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